There’s one piece of pie left. You pull it out of the refrigerator to find your youngest child standing beside you. She looks at you and then looks at the pie. You know what’s coming next. That pie is no longer yours. You give the last piece to your child, right? (Unless it’s your favorite chocolate pie, in which case you generously offer to split it with her 50/50.) Now reverse that situation. It’s your child who has the last piece of pie. As a mother, you would never think to take that pie away from her. Mothers aren’t takers. We don’t like to see our children go without. We’re givers by nature.
As I prepared a lesson this week on the widow of Zarephath in 1 Kings 17, I was struck with the mother who was blessed because she went against that nature. She took food from her child. The widow is approached by the prophet Elijah. There is a famine in the land, and this poor mother has only enough flour and oil to prepare one last meal for her son and herself. In spite of knowing the mother’s desperate circumstances, Elijah asks her to make a bread cake for him first. He promises that God will keep her flour and oil from running out until the famine is over if she will just provide this bread for Elijah.
And she does it. She takes her son’s food and gives it away.
She gives up what is tangible for the promise of something better.
I put myself in her shoes, and I wonder what I would have done. Letting go of something you can see in exchange for something you can’t see is tough, especially when it involves taking something from your children. Letting go requires faith in the one making the promise. It requires trust.
Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. Hebrews 11:1
What if the widow hadn’t had enough faith to give up her oil and flour?
One, we likely wouldn’t be talking about her now. Second, she would not have received the blessing of unending nourishment for her family.
After all, you can’t receive God’s blessings into hands that already full.
And without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is and that He is a rewarder of those who seek Him. Hebrews 11:6
This woman believed that in taking something from her son, she would be providing something better for him. She understood that an unending supply of bread and oil was far better than enjoying one bread cake today.
Do I today believe in the One who promises His endless blessings?
But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. Matthew 6:33
Do I believe enough to give up the security of the tangible for the promise of the intangible?
While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen; for the things which are seen are temporal, but the things which are not seen are eternal. 2 Corinthians 4:18
Do I believe enough to take something from my children now so that they can fully receive God’s blessings in the future?
Taking from our children is never easy. The pie is delicious, and they don’t want to give it up.
However, like the widow of Zarephath, God promises us something better for our children when we trust Him enough to take away a temporary pleasure.
What blessings are we missing for our families when we refuse to give up the temporary for the promise of the eternal?
Let’s trust God enough to take away the pie. Let’s empty our hands of the flour and oil. And then let us watch and see what God will do for our children.
“Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, so that there may be food in My house, and test Me now in this,” says the LORD of hosts, “if I will not open for you the windows of heaven and pour out for you a blessing until it overflows.” Malachi 3:10